Hallo,

I am living with someone who is depressed. It is the person I love more than my life. I am trying to help her as much as I know, but sometimes I feel like she doesn't care for me, at all. It is very difficult to stay when all your friends advice you to leave...

Sometimes I feel that her pull me down with her, sometimes I hate her... How to deal with depressed person? Has this story a happy end?

Chase

Hey, i know exactly what your saying. I am in the same situation being dragged down by someone who is depressed and it is really nerve wrecking. I am also borderline depressed because of this. My only advice is not to listen to anything you find online because there are many different reasons and types of depression so there is no one size fits all answer. I am trying to get an appointment with a psychologist but i am really tight on money right now so unfortunately im going to have to wait a while but the best thing i can say is make sure to show that you do love them but do not chase them. As long as they know that there is someone chasing them they will not realize and face their problems. Although your affection will comfort them for the time being in the long run you are better off just showing that you love them but dont do too much. If i may i would recomend that you also get a meeting with a psychologist because they are the only certified ones who can tell you how to deal with depression, and how to take care of someone who has fallen to depression. I know it doesnt help the pain but i hope this advice will help you cope with your situation.

I'm living with someone who is very depressed. Right now our financial situation is not so good (his nor mines) and we both are struggling. I've been looking for a job with no luck and he's just studying. He's become such a different person now and its killing me. I love him more that I can even say and I hate to see him like this, what can I do to help him?